What to Do When Leaders Fail You
Remember, the goal of correction is restoration. When our commitment is based on God’s word, we must be faithful to Him and hold steady until restoration occurs.
If circumstances are as they should be, there will be a plan in place to deal with a leader’s fall–an accountability structure to bring order. In a denominational setting, there will be many overseers who can be called upon. In an independent church order, there will normally be a group of leaders who are committed to making themselves available during a time of crisis.
In all cases this structure should allow for leaders to be held accountable, corrected and restored. Even during a crisis, proper order will help keep the safety net in place. In such a setting fallen leaders can be covered as they are going through the dealings of God.
The unfortunate reality is that many churches’ structures do not allow for this type of accountability and restoration process. Even in some denominational environments, leaders are abandoned and removed for failure without an opportunity to be restored. I know of some leaders who desperately want to be delivered but cannot let anyone know their situation for fear of losing their reputation or livelihood.
When a leader falls, the most important thing for you to do is guard your heart and your behavior. If you aren’t familiar with your church structure regarding correction and restoration, don’t be afraid to ask for clarification, but be certain you are a committed member and have a meek and humble spirit when asking.
Last of all, don’t give up on the church! God is raising up a generation of leaders and believers who welcome relationship and accountability. If you allow the crisis to take you under, you could miss a great moment in history. When leaders fall, we must keep our eyes on Jesus. We can trust Him to make us a glorious bride.
Shirley Arnold is pastor, along with her husband, Steve, of TLC Family Church in Lakeland, Fla. They have also established The Spirit Life School of Theology, The Secret Place Associated Network of Ministries and The Secret Place Training Facility. She is the author of several books and ministers in churches and conferences around the world.
